The other day, I was reading the blog of an Internet friend, Nicole Daedone. She’d written a very insightful and personal post entitled “On Fucking,” and it inspired me to write my own personalized thoughts on the matter. Then I began to realize that I have a lot more to talk about here than just fucking. I thought, “I want to talk about all of sex, and how a man might approach, entice, open and truly give the best of himself to a woman sexually.” On further thought, I realized, “what I have to say is not really about sex, but about sensation, sensuality, and building a powerful and lasting connection.”
So, this will be the first post in a series on opening women to pleasure and sensuality. This series will be directed at men, but hopefully women will get something out of it too. At the very least, I hope this post will be something that, when women read it, they’ll resonate with and send to the men in their lives.
There’s probably only going to be a single major theme running though this with regards to advice for women. That is: Communicate this stuff with the man in your life. We men are not (much as so many women seem to want us to be) mind readers. Read more »